The first step: Make a good invitation
First of all, let’s invite the girl out. When inviting her out, be sure to make the invitation vague. Don’t directly ask her after just a few words, “Are you free tonight? Let’s go out for dinner together?” This can easily reveal your desire and put pressure on her. As a result, she will instinctively reject you. The right approach is to start a relaxed and pleasant chat with the girl first. When she is in a relatively high mood, then take the opportunity to make an invitation, for example: “After chatting for so long, I found it so interesting to chat with you. By the way, I know a new Japanese restaurant has opened on XX Road. The reviews are quite good. I’ve always wanted to find someone interesting to go and try it together. Do you want to come along?” Here, you neither put any pressure on the girl nor give a specific reason for the invitation. It’s very hard for the girl to refuse you. Even if she’s not available that day, she will tell you, “Let’s go next time when you have time.” In fact, if you want to win over a girl, as long as you are good at chatting, you have an 80% chance of winning her over. Because in a relationship, the core is all about the word “talk”. Talk about life, heart and future with the girl. Only when you get along well with her will there be a chance for development
Step 2: Arrange the dating process
So, how exactly should the dating process be arranged? Let me give you an example: You can first take the girl to a bar for a while, order two low-alcohol cocktails, and in a slightly tipsy state, chat with her, listen to some music, and let her gradually relax. She will also lower her guard against you. Feeling that the conversation was almost over, I changed the course and took the girl to a private cinema. I chose a romantic movie suitable for couples. While watching the movie, I would occasionally make eye contact with her or, when she wasn’t paying attention, secretly hold her hand. She surely wouldn’t resist. After watching the movie, don’t rush to send the girl home. You can take her to a park or rooftop with a good night view, take a walk together and chat. If she gets tired from walking, let her rest on your shoulder for a while, or you can enjoy the night view of the city together. At this point, the atmosphere between you two is already very ambiguous. So next, you can find a suitable time to confess your love to the girl. Remember, when confessing, you must be sincere and not be playful. Otherwise, the girl will think you are casual. Look, guys! After such a date, the girl will surely be unable to forget you because you have taken her to experience many different things and given her many different feelings. Moreover, in such a date, your relationship will also progress unconsciously. Some guys might say, “The date schedule is well arranged, but after meeting the girl, you still don’t know what to talk about, and it’s very easy to have an awkward silence. So next, I’ll teach you a few more topics that you can start chatting with a girl.”
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- Brothers, you should know that everyone has their own interests and hobbies, and girls are no exception. So when chatting with a girl, you can talk more about her interests and hobbies. For example, if she likes music, you can talk about her favorite singers and bands. If she likes traveling, let’s talk about the places she has been to and what interesting things she has done. Talk about her work and study, but guys should be careful. Don’t keep asking the girl about her work and study. Otherwise, it will give her the feeling that you are checking her household registration. You can first talk to her about your own work and study, and then guide her to talk about her own work and study. Girls all like to talk about gossip. So when chatting with girls, you can talk more about the latest hot topics and gossip. But guys, remember, don’t talk about those too negative or too bloody gossips. Otherwise, girls will think you are very dark. It’s very easy to talk about her daily life. After all, everyone has their own daily life. When chatting with a girl, you can ask her what she has done today and if she has encountered any interesting things. In this way, not only will the girl feel that you care about her, but she will also gradually open up to you. Maybe some brothers will say it again. I know all these topics, but I still don’t know how to talk about them. As we keep chatting, we run out of things to say. So what should we do? In fact, there are some small tricks in chatting. For instance, use open-ended questions more often. Guys should know that when chatting with girls, if you use closed-ended questions, girls can only answer “yes” or “no”. Then the chat is very likely to become awkward. So, try to use open-ended questions as much as possible to let girls say more. For instance, instead of asking a girl, “Do you like watching movies?”, ask, “Sweetheart, what’s your favorite movie?” Don’t ask, “How was your day today?” Instead, ask, “Sweetheart, did you encounter anything interesting today?” Many guys, when chatting with girls, only ask questions. Girls will find it very annoying and not want to talk to you. So what should you do? Share your feelings more often. In fact, you can share your feelings with girls more often. For instance, if you watch a really good movie, you can tell her, “Sweetheart, I watched a super good movie yesterday. After watching it, I couldn’t recover for a long time.” In this way, girls will think you are very genuine and be willing to keep chatting with you. Brothers, you should know that self-mockery is a great way to chat. Because self-mockery can make you seem very confident and also make girls think you are humorous. So, how to self-mock? For instance, you can tell a girl, “Sweetheart, I feel like I’ve been so stupid recently. I always forget things.” Or, “Sweetheart, look, have I gained some weight recently? I feel like my face has become rounder.” But guys, remember, when it comes to self-mockery, do it in moderation. Don’t keep doing it all the time, or else the girl will think you are very self-conscious. Alright, guys, that’s all for today. Hurry up and ask the girl you like out!
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