A Complete Guide to dating

Within the first half an hour of a date, there will inevitably be a sense of strangeness. You should know that the girl is definitely waiting for you to start a conversation. If the interaction between the two sides cannot simultaneously stir up the emotions of both, then either or one of the dating parties may lose interest in this date, and their emotions will gradually decline, eventually leading to a breakup. Although a girl may feel mysterious and excited when she meets you for the first time, she may still feel insecure and even a little guarded against you because there was no actual interaction before. This is normal. At this time, you need to dispel her concerns and build a sense of comfort. Some brothers might think that being a little more enthusiastic and letting the girl see my sincerity should be enough. But doing so will only make the girl think that you have ulterior motives towards her. So you should pay attention to a sense of proportion, because after all, you are not her and your thinking cannot represent her. So at the beginning when you are not so familiar with each other, don’t be overly enthusiastic or too proactive. Just face her as a friend. For instance, when you first meet a girl and she is late, if you have already seen her, don’t rush over. Just stretch out your hand to signal her. Make her come to you on her own initiative. Don’t underestimate this detail. It can make her feel from the very beginning that you have no ambition for her and that you are a person of high value, rather than a man who can’t walk when he sees a girl. You should know that the purpose of doing this is, first, to lower the girl’s guard and, second, to prevent you from getting into a passive situation and being led by the nose by the girl. When meeting for the first time, both of you tend to be a bit reserved. At this point, you can use some humorous and witty ways to ease the tension. For instance, you can say, “You look different from the photo.” Pause for two seconds and then say, “The real person is cuter/more mature than the photo,” creating a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere. Then you can suggest taking a walk along the street with her for about five minutes. Then find a coffee shop that looks quieter and more romantic (the half an hour you were asked to arrive earlier was not in vain). At this point, you can sit down and chat slowly.