Have your own opinions
When chatting with girls, boys must have their own opinions. Specifically, in terms of language, they should not simply nod “yes” or directly make all kinds of promises to the other party. They should not flatter and take the initiative to lead the conversation. If the other party shows no interest in the topic, they should switch in time.
When both sides are getting to know each other’s values, your words and actions should be in harmony with each other. Don’t blindly cater to the other. The sense of demand should be just right
You might think that frequently praising and nodding is a shortcut to opening someone’s heart, but that’s not the case. In fact, girls prefer those who seem cold at first but become more proactive towards the end of the date. This will make the girl feel that you prefer her inner qualities to her appearance, which is especially applicable to pretty girls. 
Show the same values as the girl
Whether your values are in line largely determines whether a girl wants to have a long-term relationship with you. So during the chat, don’t just talk about the things that both of you like, but also try the things that neither of you likes. Research has found that people are more intimate when they reach an agreement on things they dislike than on things they like. If you don’t know what she is particularly averse to, here I suggest that all the brothers can start from social hotspots and express your opinions, but please don’t be too extreme.
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